Ayesha's Innovations
Ayesha’s Innovations is my personal blog. The basic purpose of this blog is to share my insights, ideas, provide an opportunity to my readers a positive picture about life, educational information, counseling & guidance, and mentor them in a subtle, yet innovative way in order to help them succeed in their own life.
Sunday, November 26, 2023
United We Stand-Divided We Fall
Tuesday, March 9, 2021
International Women Day: The Integral Women
Women are integral part of life. Women in digital age have dynamic roles to play. They are no more confined to homes. Rather, they are serving as professionals and leaders today. Additionally, they are also performing as teachers, consultants, mentors, guides, inspirational leaders, philanthropists, and much more.
However, women are still challenged by societal threats, biases, and discrimination in their very own homes and families. Hence, each women has to confront at some point in her life to overcome these challenges. Contrarily, there are very successful women around us as well, who have achieved their goals by believing in themselves, countering with all the societal biases, and strived to overcome the discriminatory norms in their culture.
Let's dive into the world of few women who are inspirational in their own ways.
Woman As An Innovative Entrepreneur
Farah is a women entrepreneur now, but she started her journey to become one almost 15 years ago, when she was a home maker without having any knowledge about business. She was a very dedicated mother, a committed wife and above all a caring and loving daughter too. She was totally unaware about her hidden talents. However, she was a keen learner about new skills, and discovering new opportunities around her.
Farah was always interested in designing dresses, and enjoyed turning them into a very colorful well stitched dress as a finished product. She always prefer to stitch clothes of all her family members, friends and sometimes even for others who request her to do so on a small payment. One day an old friend of her from college visited her and told her about that she has turned her passion into a business venture. After hearing her story, Farah also got quite excited and discussed her business plan with her husband. He equally got excited and agreed to fully support her idea. Finally, after going through all the processes she acquired a small space for a stitching unit (factory) and hired 10 women to start her own stitching factory. Today, she is a successful owner and CEO of her company and design clothes for all age groups of women.
Women As A Dedicated Teacher and Student
Sara loved teaching since her childhood, because she was inspired by one of her teacher at her school. When Sara grew up she planned to go into higher education to acquire her PhD in education. Although, her home circumstances were not in favor of pursuing an expensive higher education. Therefore, she started saving money from her existing teaching job to pay for her tuition at the university. Her family was not supporting her decision due their financial constraints and other important family priorities, like children's education etc.
She wrote a letter to university authorities about her interest in pursuing her higher education studies, and that she is unable to afford it. After almost two weeks she received a letter from the university that she has been approved for a scholarship to cover her tuition fees along with a stipend to cover her all study related expenses. This was great news for Sara and after her hard work she eventually completed her PhD studies.
Women As A Committed Home Maker
Kiran is happily married, she has 3 children to look after, a husband, her mother in law and her own parents too. She lives in small suburban town. Her husband owns a small grocery store and sells everyday items to all close by people. Although, the town is quite small, but everyone knows each other well and its a closely knit kind of a family town for everyone.
Kiran is mainly committed to her family and loves to take care of her elders too. Her own parents are always ready to support her too, but her mother in law is quite old and partially disabled to take care of her own basic needs, therefore Kiran has to remain at home just to avoid any emergency situation, but now she has help from her children too as her eldest daughter is now 15 years old now.
Kiran is quite smart in all the home related decisions, hence she thought of an idea of creating a small activity center for old people in the town, without compromising on her home responsibilities. She had some savings and applied for a small loan from the bank, which got approved eventually. Next, she rented a small house, cleaned her and turned into an activity center, where old people of her town could visit anytime of the day, could play any indoor game, watch TV, read books or magazines, use computer if they know it, or prefer to learn something new from the young volunteers of school and college.
Holistic Women
All these women are playing extremely vital roles in their own respective lives. They are successful in their own ways and well respected by their family, society and their culture. Each women possess unique abilities and skills, its just matter of discovering our inner potential. We must keep looking for opportunities suitable for our own environment and living style. We all need to believe in ourselves to achieve in life. Life is quite big and has lot to offer us everyday and every minute, its up to us how we take best advantage of it.
Keep exploring and discovering your hidden potential to become more integral women of today. Happy and well deserved international women day and everyday to you all.
Wednesday, September 30, 2020
Role Modeling: Children and Role Models
Who is a Role Model?
A role model is a person whose serves as an example by influencing others. For many children, the most important role models are their parents and caregivers. Children look up to a variety of role models to help shape how they behave in school, relationships or when making difficult decisions. Children also look up to other relatives, teachers and peers. Children may try to copy the behavior and appearance of celebrities, such as athletes and entertainers, and characters from books, TV, movies and video games.
Why do we need role models?
Role models provide inspiration and support when needed, and they provide examples of how to live a fulfilling, happy life. When observing behavior, decisions or actions of a role model, individuals learn how to display positive personality characteristics and moral traits.
A group of young girls when asked about why do we all need role models, this was their response.
Positive Role Modeling
Some parents may want to help their children choose positive role models. Here are some helpful suggestions for discussing role models with your child and for serving as a positive role model for your child:
- Have your child identify what qualities he admires in his role model
- Give examples of people in your community who you feel have positive qualities and are a good influence on others
- Talk about people you look up to for guidance and inspiration
Negative Role Modeling
- Remind your child that all people have good and bad qualities and that anyone can make a mistake. Explain that it is important to apologize, accept our mistakes and learn a lesson from each mistake.
- Ask your child what he thinks of the role model’s behavior
- Ask what he would have done differently in the situation
- Give example of more positive and healthy ways to handle the situation
- Encourage your child to become involved in activities that reflect your values, such as religious programs, athletics, after school programs, clubs and volunteering.
- Remind your child that he or she does not have to do everything that the role model does. Your child can copy what he or she likes but still be him or herself.
- Give examples of people in your community who you feel have positive qualities and are a good influence on others.
Monday, September 7, 2020
Active Listening: A Skill To Standout
What is Active Listening?
Why we need to be active listeners?
Source: HeartlinesSA
Tuesday, December 3, 2019
Online Learner and Learning: A Need For Change
Similarly, an online instructor has to go through quite similar type of challenges at his/her end too. An online teacher has to design, create, and plan online lessons, deal with high profile technology tools, learning management systems, and similar other challenges to make his/her online course a success. It becomes an over whelming experience for an online instructor as well.
- Educational institutions offering online programs for learners must conduct an initial training program/classes for student guidance about how to take the best advantage of their online classes.
- There has to be a minimum criteria for student selection to enroll in an online class, this would enable the department to analyze the fundamentals of each learner interested.
- Teaching and training departments must design separate courses/programs for synchronous and asynchronous learning environments, because majority of online learners are professionals and already in full time jobs, hence they are unable to manage the similar study work load like a student attending on campus classes.
- Online instructors should be provided initial training opportunities before taking up the responsibility of online teaching and training.
Sunday, July 7, 2019
Marriage: A Fortune in Disguise
Marriage has always been considered a sacred relationship of love and care among all cultures, religions, and societies since the creation of human beings on this planet. Although, marriages take place according to their culture, societal norms, traditions, value system, faith and religious beliefs. Therefore, the procedures and laws of getting married vary a lot.
Tariq decided to expand his search and use social media sites too. Most of the social media sites turned out to be just as dating sites. Tariq was not interested in dating rather he was interested in marriage. However, he didn't lose hope, and relentlessly struggled.
Marriage is considered vital relationship in life. Hence, choosing right life partner is certainly a challenge. Modern trends are substantially different. Both the genders are facing crucial problems finding the right life partner. Various marriage bureaus, matrimony sites and similar such avenues are open to look for partners, but still its a challenge. Online match making seems easier and convenient to some extent, but there are always chances of scam. Sometimes online match making sites have ended up candidates into dangerous situations as well as consequences. Therefore, online match making cannot be considered 100% reliable and trustworthy for this purpose.
Undoubtedly, relationship carries perplexity with it as always. Usually, candidates remain unsure about their partner, hence unable to develop and acquire mutual trust in their relationships. Therefore, lots of marriages end up in separation, and can even lead to divorce within no time.
Marital relationship means shared responsibility, mutual respect and understanding, mental compatibility and protecting each others integrity in difficult times. However, there is not much educational services available for both genders who are ready and willing to get married. Appropriate marriage & relationship counseling services is need of the hour to help, support and guide prospective husband and wife. Additionally, training of teenage boys and girls about the concept of marriage, about the responsibilities that come along with this particular relationship and also developing awareness about the gruesome consequences of dysfunctional marriages.
Marriage means a sacred bond, a contract between husband and wife. Parental role is vital to guide and counsel their children about this sacred relationship, as well as educational institutions should also play their role in educating young generation about the role and importance of marriage in the life of a child and our next generations, because marriage forms the nucleus of human society and culture. Parents must become role models for their children and show a healthy marital relationship to their children, that could help build their children's trust for marriage. Problems should be discussed behind closed doors to avoid misconceptions and confusions in the mind of young children consequently breaking their trust.
A healthy and strong family is the backbone of every society, so its the responsibility of each one of us to build a healthy living society full of mutual trust and care for each other in and out of marriage.
Saturday, February 2, 2019
Smart Skills: Thinking Smartly
Humans are thinking creatures as compared to other living organisms on this planet. Our thinking help us to stand out among others. Therefore, thinking skills are not only unique at their core, but also vary in levels among human souls. Each one of us is gifted with our own thinking capacity and level.
Thinking Smartly
Smart is a widely known term for all of us. Currently, we are using 'SMART' in reference to people who are able to think creatively and apply their creativity every day to make smart choices and take smart decisions in life.
Apparently, smart thinking is the most highly desired phenomenon in digital age environment. A person who can think and apply using his intellect, imaginative power, and creative thinking skills to any situation, he or she is considered the most expensive person in 21st century.
Role of Education in developing smart thinking skills
As humans we all possess brains to think, but unfortunately majority of the population possess average level of thinking power. Usually, large number of population is not aware of raising their thinking capacity, nor interested to ponder and understand this phenomenon.
Education is the only medium which possess the capacity to transform even a below average thinker into an enlightened thinking mind. However, this requires lot of effort, plus an effective well designed educational system to efficiently produce critical and creative thinkers.
Presently, education systems around the world are competing from elementary to tertiary education level to produce such thinking minds possessing 'smart skills' to cater the contemporary needs of digital age.
Apparently, most of the educational systems have failed substantially to fulfill this dire need of the hour, because their systems are merely focusing on short term market/business requirements and targeting money generating thinkers only. They are unable to produce autonomous, empowered and enlightened leaders, creators, and inventors.
How to produce 'smart thinking' minds?
Thinking is a skill as well as an art. Smart thinking stimulates us to make smart choices and smart decisions. Smart thinking means to foresee the future to take precautionary measures at the right time. Tap the potential opportunities, and overcome the upcoming challenges. Plan, execute, and follow appropriate steps to reach the desired goals.
Such smart thinking minds can only be produced if we focus and target providing appropriate developmental opportunities to each individual according to their interests, capacities, and help them decide and make choices for themselves at the right time. At an early age, children should be given an opportunity to participate in decision making at family level, and elders must acknowledge their decisions, with appropriate guidance. Provide a healthy, ethical relationship environment to share, discuss, and understand each others needs.
Role of parents in developing 'smart thinkers'
Parental guidance, and their role can play vital role in this endeavor. Parents must try their level best to not only love their children but try to understand their changing needs in the ever changing environment, but also help, support, facilitate, and create such opportunities for their children that could improve their mental capacities in diversified dimensions.
This can only be achieved if parents should trust, accept and treat each other respectfully. Love and care for each particularly in tough times, and discuss their differences behind closed doors only. Children always watch and see how their parents behave and treat each other, this impacts their personality the most.