Saturday, May 25, 2013

Digital Age Kids! New Dimensions of Preparation

My world is now very small, it is on my small finger tips now with which I can manipulate and maneuver my own power of thinking, planning, creating, liking and disliking, understanding and learning in my own way.

Isn't it incredible! Yes indeed, it is. Especially children are enjoying this new innovative life experience and the phenomenon around them open for them all the time. Children are extremely delicate and precious beings especially in their childhood. They need to be dealt not only delicately but at the same time with intelligently to keep them on the right track. We as elders hold the responsibility of providing them satisfactory answers to their even foolish questions and queries, plus give them a direction to follow according to their cognition level and help them understand things in clear way. Complications make them frustrated and confused.

This digital age has twofold impact on our lives. On one side we are all experiencing wonders of technology, information, communication and much more than what we expect in split of seconds and with every passing moment. On the other hand this technological breakthrough has high social, emotional, physical and intellectual impact on our lives too. Children in their schools are taught with new methodologies using new multimedia devices however their teachers usually forget to guide them about the harmful effects and disadvantages of internet, social media and free communication channels wide open without any security check on them.

Therefore, a much greater responsibility lies on the shoulders of parents, teachers and community as a whole to provide a free accessibility to technology but with appropriate direction to them as well in their delicate age i.e. in elementary school age especially.

Sunday, May 12, 2013

Personal Anecdotes

Personal life of each one of us is always full of diversified experiences, incidents, mistakes but at the same time we all hold in common our secretive stories attached to us. We can call them as a kind of anecdotes which remain attached with us and sometimes we are unable to get away from them.

Such stories become part of our life routine therefore we start owning them and keep living with them irrespective of our happiness and sadness.

There are always natural life phenomenon in life which exist and we remain entangled in them due to inevitable reasons. Sometimes our inner fears, or some other societal factors keep stopping us to get out of these uneasy issues of life because with these personal anecdotes we start feeling comfortable and accept them as a bitter reality of our life.

Certainly, truth lies in accepting these stories as part of our life however opportunities always remain standing with open arms in front of us to hold hands with it and make ourselves free from these shackles of inner fears.

 After achieving maturity in life we all become prone to such dark sides. At this time we find rather more difficult to get out of the situation due to number of factors like family commitments, intellectual and professional commitments, putting our professional profiles at stake is not our cup of tea as well etc etc.

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Where Are Grooming Mothers?

Mother has always been a source of love, affection, kindness, care, trust, and what not. Mother is the only individual who has borne all the pain to bring us into this world. She put her own life at stake for us to provide for us, to cuddle us, to keep us neat and tidy, to keep us away from all fears and problems therefore we all trust our mothers the most in this world and she is always a hope for us wherever and in whatever situation we are.

Fortunate are all those who have a mother always praying and loving us whether in return we are doing something for her or not, a totally selfless personality who always remains on the giving side.

Unfortunately, giving birth doesn't terminate the responsibility of grooming and training therefore somehow we are missing those mothers who use to groom and train their children to become the best human being among the lot.

She always use to guide her children about  eating habits, sitting manners,behaving with others, respecting elders and others, taking care of belongings, managing time, asking permission, remaining neat and tidy, controlling feeling and emotions, be sincere and honest in dealings, creating space for others in life etc are all those traits which are instilled by our mothers in childhood which become part of our personality throughout our life.

Sunday, April 21, 2013

Level of Intellect! A Novel Experience

Intellectuals are the rare breed among the humans who go through exceptional experiences throughout life due to their inquiring nature, analytical mindset and exclusive higher order thinking skills.

Usually, we remain consistently in the phase of striving without stopping or compromising on quality. However, such individuals have to go through resistance, discouragement and impediments to face more than others in life, still they keep on moving and creating something new all the time as the passion always igniting such souls.

Comfort zone always remain a strange concept for such restless souls. Intellectuals therefore always achieve what they long for in life. Success is part of their everyday life routine as it comes every now and than through constant exposure to immense challenges. Later on, they get use to it and feel it as a routine matter in life rather failure is something strange to them however they do accept it with open heart and mind. Consequently, leading them as never a failure in their life span.

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Professionalism! An Attitude

Professional life has its own life style which we carry along while performing and achieving our ambitions and goals in life.

Through experiences, ups and downs of practical life one becomes prone to few types of attitudes however still there lies a hollowness inside us which we keep on trying to fill or satisfy through our successful endeavors but unfortunately it very much remains there inside all of us no matter how successful professional we become.

Professionalism has its own requirements and demands which each one of us being a professional have to cater. I believe that professionalism is not just the other name of attaining success or fame. It holds something different within and that I would name as an attitude to carry out in life.

A professional has to be understanding, empathetic, possess exceptional listening skills, control his/her temperament in difficult times, avoid being critical and avoid falling into arguments with others. Being passionate and ambitious at the same time to achieve in life and fulfill our dreams. Serving without any fear and without any expectations or rewards. Being organized in time management are some of the leading traits. Never falling prey to challenges rather conquering them step by step. Patience and perseverance enable them to stand out among the lot.

Monday, April 1, 2013

Classy! An Exclusivity Within

Being classy is a distinctive quality of being original in its own essence. This exclusivity lies among all creations by giving them a position apart from all the others.

How classy people can be identified among the lot? This is a pivotal question lying in our minds and sometimes bothering us every now and than while choosing friends, partners and sometimes even life partners. Unfortunately, our search goes in vain if we are unable to find those exclusive personalities which have a certain type of distinctive characteristics inside them.

At times, we come across these classy individuals with whom we feel a kind of natural attraction instantly and  therefore we have a soul mate feeling. This unique and extraordinary attraction makes us feel as if we know this person since long and no hesitation whatsoever. Without any type of inhibition we share our thoughts, plans, ideas, goals and passions with them and a relationship of trust, understanding and mutual respect and care develops with time.