Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Where Are Grooming Mothers?

Mother has always been a source of love, affection, kindness, care, trust, and what not. Mother is the only individual who has borne all the pain to bring us into this world. She put her own life at stake for us to provide for us, to cuddle us, to keep us neat and tidy, to keep us away from all fears and problems therefore we all trust our mothers the most in this world and she is always a hope for us wherever and in whatever situation we are.

Fortunate are all those who have a mother always praying and loving us whether in return we are doing something for her or not, a totally selfless personality who always remains on the giving side.

Unfortunately, giving birth doesn't terminate the responsibility of grooming and training therefore somehow we are missing those mothers who use to groom and train their children to become the best human being among the lot.

She always use to guide her children about  eating habits, sitting manners,behaving with others, respecting elders and others, taking care of belongings, managing time, asking permission, remaining neat and tidy, controlling feeling and emotions, be sincere and honest in dealings, creating space for others in life etc are all those traits which are instilled by our mothers in childhood which become part of our personality throughout our life.


When we move into practical life and come across people in life they immediately get impressed and appreciate us and judge that this man/woman definitely belongs to a well groomed family background and must be having an inspirational mother at him/her back.

However, mothers are still the most inspirational personality of our life but they have stopped playing this vital role which they certainly they hold towards their offspring. Either these mothers are too occupied in making money, gossiping, watching movies and soaps on TV, hanging out with friends without any reason, working out on their physical beauty (hairstyle, makeup) etc.

No matter all these are a woman's desires and she holds the right to look beautiful but not at the cost of her kids who need her time and attention at home. Kids must always be her first priority as children if not speaking or complaining anything but watching every move of their parents.

Mother holding the most important responsibility of grooming of her children therefore she must not ignore it and pay attention to it and doing things herself by attending children, giving them a fair chance of hearing their issues, providing them a good company when they need, become their mentor and guide during teenage and share with them as if their best friend. Try to be always there for them to fulfill their needs.

Certainly,all these efforts and hardships will pay her one day definitely when her kids will be responsible towards her and become shining stars to make their mother proud of them.

LETS BECOME GROOMING MOTHERS TO MAKE OUR KIDS SHINE!


1 comment:

  1. Yes, Ayesha, it is very obvious from the behaviors of our young generation that they are deprived of the real grooming of their moms. Consequently, not only society and kids suffer but first parents themselves suffer.

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