Aspire To Inspire

Aspiration is an intention to direct one’s hopes and ambitions towards a higher level of achievement in life. An aspiration leads us towards becoming an inspiration for all those around us. 

Let’s focus our attention on the difference between aspiration and inspiration. Well, inspiration is mainly about external source, and it refers to an act of making someone to do something, while aspire is a desire or ambition to achieve something, and it is focused towards internal source.

          Aspiring is an intrinsic motivation. All humans possess the innate motivation to perform, to show, getting acknowledged, remembered after they depart from this world. Generally, people aspire about achieving higher goals like acquiring higher education, better jobs or career for themselves, owning a house, a nice car of their choice. However, choices vary from person to person. 

However, there are few unique souls who aspire to be better individuals, serve their fellow human beings, and their society at large. They consistently strive for a better tomorrow, even though they have to participate by conducting voluntary efforts through thick and thin. Sometimes, these aspiring individuals are short of their own resources, but such obstacles never stop them from offering their services, because their aim is to serve, and serve their best no matter what price they have to pay for it. 

Unfortunately, we sometimes ignore such people. Although, they are found in our families, among our friends or relatives, but we never acknowledge their efforts, their courage, and their precious moments. Their selfless efforts usually remain unacknowledged by our community. 

In this era of selfishness, and busy life style, its hard to find trustworthy, honest, and sincere people around us. Hence, it is important that we identify such individuals, organizations, and groups who aspire to inspire all those around them. 

Sometimes, we find such selfless souls at our workplaces, in our teams, in school, and even inside are very homes. Mother is a very good example of such aspiring ones. Mothers are intrinsically motivated to help, assist, mentor and guide her children at all times. Next could be fathers, our teachers and even our grandparents are all those aspiring individuals around us, whom we must get our inspiration from to be better individuals ourselves. 

Aspire to inspire has always been the best part of us. We all need to aspire for something or the other, irrespective of the type of dreams we plan to pursue. However, aspiring to be an inspiration certainly, always require to go an extra mile. 

I aspire to inspire as a teacher, a mentor, a guide and as a motivational speaker for my children, my students, family, friends, colleagues, coworkers, and above all my fellow human beings. 

ASPIRE TO INSPIRE, BEFORE YOU EXPIRE!

 

Parenting and Influencing

Parenting is a skill as well as an art. It may seem easier, but it’s the most difficult assignment/job in the whole world. Unlike animals, human offspring requires many long years of consistent struggle of nurturing, healthy growing environment, constant supervision and much more.

Additionally, parenting is not just about raising a healthy child. Realistically speaking, parenting is all about upbringing of a human being with a healthy body, along with a healthy mind, a person with integrity, a balanced personality with character, who could be beneficial for his/her family and society at large.

This picture of parenting comprises of two main characters, a father and a mother (parents). Both the characters have to act simultaneously in order to get the best results out of this portrait that they are trying to paint as painters of their family. Family means togetherness, sharing ups and down in the journey of life span, mutual understanding, and above all mutual respect for each other’s privacy and space at the same time. 

Unfortunately, families lack determining these vital blind spot moments, although living under same roof. However, family members living at distance from each other can still be together, connect, share, discuss, and spend time together. That’s the reason it is called a FAMILY.

Parenting and influencing are two different sides of the same coin. Influencing is all about role modeling. Generally, parents consider themselves as best care takers, guides, mentors and teachers of their children. Undoubtedly, this is good, but it is certainly not enough.  Influencing requires much more than just being parents.

Let’s flip this side, focus our attention towards our children, and understand what and how children actually think about us as parents. 

At younger age children perceive their parents as their care takers, they depend on their parents even for their trivial problems. By the time children start going to school, they prefer that their parents help them beyond their physical needs. For example, guide them in their homework, preparing for their exams, etc. Little later in life, children want their parents to be their best friends. Being best friend of your children means, by showing your love in these ways, sitting down with them, spending time with them, understanding their viewpoints, facilitating them in their life choices and decisions.

Our children are our future, and they are reflection of their parents. As a parent, we need to reflect upon our attitude towards our children. We need to think about that, are we giving enough time to our children? Or are we just covering up by giving expensive gifts to our children. Are we giving them a listening ear? At the time, when they count on us for guidance, or do we turn our faces away from them, by acknowledging our busy life schedules. All these small gestures count, and make a lot of difference in the life of our children.

Perhaps, we need to address that what we used to expect from our parents, when we were kids. This way it might become quite clear to us, how our parents were like, and how they reacted to our problems as their children etc. 

Having said that, parenting and influencing your children is a matter of commitment, being diligent, at the end of the day.