Worthwhile Woman

Women are the other half of the planet. Primarily, women are contributors for others instead for herself. Sacrificing her own apatite, her sleep, her clean bed, her belongings, her money, and her own wishes are just very few in the list. 

Majority of the women remain unaware of their potential throughout their lives. However, each one of them possess unique qualities. Let's take a look the best part of her as a woman. 

The best beauty of a woman lies in her own existence as a woman. She is created to be beautiful, creative, educated, worthy of love, respect, and care. She is born to be nurtured and dealt as a fragile being. She is supposed to be protected and given security by men around her. She always tries to perform her different roles in the form of a loving mother, a caring sister, a wife, a proud daughter of her parents, and a dependable friend. 

Women are the leaders in education, mainly because of their kind and caring nature towards children. Home errands are served day to day by woman all over the world, thus they are queens of their homes too. She contributes directly and indirectly towards her society because she wants her children to grow up in a just society. She anticipates to provide a comfortable living to her family in order to let her family achieve all their goals successfully. 

Although, the society has evolved substantially over centuries. Women are equal earning members along with men, but women are deprived of their fundamental human rights even today. Since, they are considered as weaker gender therefore, they are maltreated even inside their homes. Lots of other issues women have to face at their workplace too. 

Worthwhile woman believes in a purposeful life of their own. No matter how hard it is for her to achieve her goals, but she strives for excellence and never gives up. She doesn't believe in controlling situations, rather let others live and enjoy their own freedom. She loves to forget and forgive for the common good. She held her head high with honor and dignity to be respected with pride. 

Bold, beautiful, courageous and smart thinking woman of today looks forward for encouragement, support, acknowledgment of her untiring efforts, recognition of her achievements. She looks forward to be equally respected and understood. She does possess the right to be happy, to think freely, to work at a comfortable workplace without any type of harassment. Above all she deserves to live her life with her own choice. She should be given right to choose her partner as well. No doubt, these matters are lot talked about but unfortunately not practiced. 

As a worthwhile woman we must keep believing in ourselves that we are unique, precious, invincible and empowered personalities in our own beautiful ways. No matter wherever you are living, or working, you are fully capable of winning and conquering your world. We are worthwhile woman of today. 

My gift for all the woman of the world on International Women Day. 

Story of Life

Our lives takes twists and turns throughout its journey, and each turn brings to us a new experience, a new hope, sometimes joys but sometimes sorrows too. We all live our stories of life.

Each one of us are connected with our life stories in some way or the other. We usually keep protecting ourselves behind our stories too. Our life stories are unique because we are unique as individuals too. These stories can be imaginary or real. Imaginary stories are our own self perceptions, but the real life stories are comprised of our life experiences we pass through during life. 

The most unique part about these life stories are that we love to share them with others. However, we determine with whom we are going to share our story. Human beings are connected with each other through these stories too. Whenever we share our story with another person he or she also has a life story too. Fortunately, once we discuss our life story the other person also erupts and tell us about their unique life story. This way two different individuals get connected and if they have a common story they become friends, lovers, mentors, or our counselors. 

These life stories are extremely powerful tools to help us understand life, learn lessons, empowers us to develop hope, builds our confidence, create a vision, determine our future goals, and help us plan to be better human beings eventually.

Actually, our life story is the reflection of all those moments which we have lived, irrespective whether good or bad. The happy moments are our privileges, and blessings. On the contrary, our sad moments were the ones which made us strong and empowered us to move on in life.

Story of life does hold in itself our true self. They make us shine among our fellow human beings provided we transform our life stories into a learning opportunity, a stepping stone to move forward, a confident move to create our vision, an intimate moment to share and bring new souls closer. 

We all must build our positive life stories no matter what our life brings to us in each passing moment. Develop ourselves as better individuals to improve and inspire others to let them stand on their feet after every fall. Eventually, we all have a huge treasure of beautiful and successful life stories in our account of life that we love to share, explore, and pave a road to success for our own life journey. 

Dare to share your story of your life! 

Not Everything is Contained in Books

As it is rightly expressed by Mahatma Gandhi that, “Knowledge gained through experience is far superior and many times more useful than bookish knowledge.” Gaining knowledge is a natural human desire. Books and life experiences are both primary sources of acquiring knowledge; hence, both have their own value in life. Having said that, I believe learning from experience is far more valuable, productive and practical for a successful life.

Firstly, books are considered a major source of gaining knowledge at early age particularly in schools. Knowledge from books is quite enough to grasp language, and build concepts to build a foundation for learning at later age. For example, learning of alphabets, creating words from those alphabets, later on it paves way for construction of complete sentences. However, books do not provide us any knowledge about social skills, and their challenges in practical life which primarily depends upon our language use. Therefore, experiences teach us with time and practice to learn and develop social skills in life.

Furthermore, moving on by saying that, “Experience is a teacher by itself”. Apparently speaking, books are written by experts and authorities in various fields and subjects. No doubt, their contributions are greatly accepted, but merely by going through the subject matter presented in these books does not enable us to be an expert, or an authority in that field and profession. For example, a novice doctor no matter how high his/her scores are in medical profession, but he is not eligible to perform surgeries. Each doctor has to go through mandatory internships, by working under the guidance of an expert doctor as a trainee doctor for some time. Afterwards, passing certain training and internships over a period of time, and under the presence of competent doctors he or she is allowed to perform surgery. Hence, we can say that without real time experience a person is unable to be considered as an expert professional in the field.

Finally, knowledge acquired from books is only for the sake of knowledge itself. On the contrary, experience teaches us how to apply that knowledge in real life situations. For example, reading the book about learning to drive does provide knowledge about various road signs, different driving situations, and information about the vehicle etc. However, we can only learn driving skills by applying that knowledge by sitting behind the steering wheel of the car. Similarly, learning to swim, ride a bicycle, baking, cooking all such skills are learnt with practice and experience only.

To conclude, it is correctly said, “Information is not knowledge. The only source of knowledge is experience.”

Problems VS Solutions

As human beings during our life terms each one of us experience diversified nature of problems. We are all knit together due to these problems in our lives reaching to us from time to time. These problems not only add flavor to our life but also provide us opportunities to step up and look forward in life.

However, devising a solution to our problems is not everyone's cup of tea. In fact, each problem does own its solution in its own self and provides us a challenge to overcome it through trail and error. But majority of the people do not accept this challenge and prefer to remain in their comfort zone. Therefore, they keep resisting change and these problems become their inner fears and keep haunting them for the rest of their lives.

Since each coin always has two sides similarly all negative elements has positive ends too. Its the matter of our attitude the way we look at them and try to overcome them with our self-confidence.

Certainly, formulating solutions cannot be done with ease one has to think, analyze the situation, understand the factors adding to that problem and finally has to invent a solution. This is a very painful process indeed. Immense amount of patience, perseverance, tolerance, determination and consistency is required in life. 

But people who conduct this process successfully considered to be intelligent and successful performers in life. It doesn't mean that such people don't face any problems in life rather they face each problem with open heart and welcome problems with open arms. Each new problem in their life opens a new door of opportunity for them.

Life throws immense amount of opportunities in front of us to keep taking them into our hands and transform our lives accordingly in our favor or against us. Each success story of a person has a background full of huge amount of problems but they keep turning each of them into their successful life opportunities of learning, understanding and development. 

If each one of us believe in ourselves and hold confidence that none of the problem is bigger than you. Problems are like pages of our life and by turning each new page you see a new dimension of life waiting to welcome you with open arms.

Remaining united during tough times no matter whichever role we are playing in life does help turning our challenges into solutions. It all depends upon us whether we develop a positive attitude towards life or keep thinking about negativity in life. Negative people and negative thinking wont lead us anywhere rather spoil our present. Our present is the time in our hands to take the best advantage out of it and add a new dimension to our life because today is in your hands. 

Strong persons are not the ones who are physically strong rather strong is the person who has self control during adversities and keep holding their heads high to face each challenge by looking into its eyes and saying confidently, 'I HAVE SOMETHING IN ME WHICH IS MORE POWERFUL TO TURN THIS ADVERSITY INTO A SUCCESS STORY'.

Be your best and take what comes. 

Empower Woman Empower Nation!

Woman the other half population of this world is the leading force behind each family, each household, each organization and each country globally. Female creature provides her selfless services towards her children, society and community at large to turn it into a worthwhile generation. 

Evidently in the history of humanity females have contributed in farms, villages, schools during the past centuries before the industrial revolution in West. However, in east and Asian countries woman are still working side by side with their male counterparts in fields for farming and agricultural purposes consequently turning the whole agriculture sector into gold mines. 

After the industrial revolution woman contribution in service and manufacturing industry has brought revolutionary results to western countries and the silent female workforce has helped and facilitated beyond imagination. 

The present era of 21st century is a dynamic age of technological revolution which has its own challenges and demands from each individual irrespective of age, gender, race, ethnic background and culture. Fortunately, woman have also risen to the occasion and taken up various dynamic challenges of this age as well and have proven their worth too. 

There is no sector or field in which woman have not shown their contributions including corporate, education, technology, engineering, science, medicine, agriculture, avionics industry, logistics, intelligence, police, food industry, hospitality industry what not, you just name it and you will find profound contributions of woman delivering their best possible services equally with men. 

Maintaining her dignity along with her self identity she has been consistently doing efforts to provide quality life for their families. Although, her efforts are not acknowledged the way they should be but she keeps on doing selflessly. 

Unfortunately, very few woman are made aware of their self worth and hence most of their hidden talents remain untapped throughout their life. In addition, majority of females are oppressed globally no matter how advanced society they are living in. Sometimes these oppressed woman become so helpless that they have to turn to unfair means for their living which consequently put them into insecure situations. 

Science has proven many years ago that woman are equally talented and possess similar potential to work and contribute simultaneously with the male gender. This is evident that woman who knows and realizes her talent and self worth is not accepted with open heart by male dominated society. 

However, I would say the trends have changed to a great extent and woman are freely working with equal rights in all professional and non professional fields in life. Society has accepted their contributions to a great extent and therefore providing woman many diversified opportunities to prove their self worth and earn a decent life for themselves and for their families. 

Woman are now pilots and even conquered space too. Their contributions in medical science, engineering, architecture, corporate and businesses are no doubt profound. Woman entrepreneurs are conquering diversified nature of business opportunities world wide. 

I would request all woman of the world to look into their own self to understand and recognize their talent, potential and knowledge, their personality and get determined to overcome challenges in their path. No challenge is bigger than their own self, their own potential to conquer it. 

So keep moving on because each small step counts and helps you move toward your dreams and goals to achieve them and win the game of life. NEVER STOP DREAMING! NEVER GIVE UP! 

I AM PROUD TO BE A WOMAN, A WOMAN OF SELF WORTH! 

Are We Doing Real Parenting?

Becoming a parent is not only the greatest blessing rather a privilege awarded to blessed ones by God. I feel becoming a parent actually means owning ones self because our children are part of our life. 

Bringing our offspring into this world doesn't end our responsibility rather increases our challenge of taking care of another human being who is extremely delicate, young, small, vulnerable and fragile. This responsibility spreads over different dimensions of this new human in this world for example: responsibility to take care of his/her body, health, mind and his or her whole personality. Hence, its not an easy job rather the most difficult job in this world. Each parent is awarded different role however, both have to share and work together as mother and father of the child whom they have brought into this world with their mutual love.

This is one of the most unique kind of relationship between parents and children which compliments each other as a family the foundation of each society at large. Children depend upon their parents for their fundamental needs and parents need love from their children and keep feeling happy and proud watching their children growing in front of their eyes day by day. 

Usually we as parents out of our love and emotions we keep providing everything to our children without teaching them the value of things and money in life. We as parents love to provide them all the comforts of life but forget to tell them how these things have reached to them? Who is working hard behind all these comforts? How much these things cost them? Why are we spending so much money on raising the standard of living for our children? etc etc.......

On the contrary, we never realize and understand to teach our children not to take things for granted in life. We as parents forget to tell our children that the hard earned money will not prove useful unless we teach and train our children how to value money in life and create a balance.

Unfortunately, majority of parents consider that things can compensate their love, care and attention towards their children. Therefore, they keep providing their children with expensive gifts, comfortable rooms, toys, dresses and much more. But they forget to give time to their children which their children actually want and expect from them. 

Eventually, when these children grow up they expect each and every comfort to be given to them without paying for it in life. They turn out to be irresponsible and care free type of individuals in life. They have no respect for hard work and effort nor they give any value to money rather they believe that all money and everything in life is their own property and they even have the right to abuse it. 

Today we can see large number of such people around us and they are the outcomes of such type of irresponsible grooming done by their parents who kept on providing them everything before the right time for it has come. For example, giving a car to a young boy without telling him that first he should prepare to earn for himself and then buy it with his own money it would teach him/her that nothing is free lunch in life. He has to work hard to buy that car for himself. If he buys that car with his own money he will be more careful and responsible in taking care of that car because it belongs to him.

This attitude will eventually gives him more confidence and a sense of responsibility towards life. He or she will feel more satisfied and more independent towards their own earnings and expenditures too. Such child will be more thankful towards his/her parents and love them more of showing them the right way of spending in life.

We have to reflect on our roles as parents and try to figure out where we are going wrong in delivering our responsibilities towards our children. These children are not just our children they are an asset of our society and the future generation in this world. Lets prepare and develop responsible, careful and grateful human beings for tomorrow.

Lets Build Homes! Not Houses.

Being human means we all have some fundamental needs in common and one of them is shelter. We all need to survive however survival is not the only desire we all hold in our hearts. 

We want to feel protected and secure with our loved ones and a sense of belonging with our family. Hence, family is the bonding and togetherness of each person attached to it. Home and family are the two concepts related to each other like heart and soul. 

Usually, majority of us don't realize the value and importance of our home. Most of us remain engaged in building houses and decorating it and sometimes spend whole life doing this without realizing that it will eventually end them into loneliness. Therefore, we should not ignore the affection and connection with family unit. 

Constructing house is also a common desire of people and we want to live comfortably and well protected inside our house. However, it should never be at the cost of our family and relationships. So lets join our hands together for building our precious homes instead of constructing and decorating houses. Although no harm in decorating our family home according to our requirements but priority should be remaining in connection and closeness with family and friends. 

Each family has its own different style of living depending upon their earnings and expenditures and they prefer to maintain their living standard accordingly. Managing a cozy and comfortable living style has always been an innate desire of each one of us because we all feel like having a place where we could feel the comfort after spending long hours of work outside whole day. 

Due to our busy life schedules of every day we all feel that although we are living under one roof as a family but we are disconnected with each other. Parents usually remain unaware about their children whereabouts. Similarly, children also miss their parents presence in homes at the time they are at home and also miss the opportunity of spending time together with their parents. 

We do have time for sending text messages, spending time on internet and outside with our friends but we usually forget that eating the last meal of the day with parents and grand parents holds immense value in itself. Presence of parents at their children special events, wishing them success in their each small step in school and work, providing them an opportunity to share their problems and giving them a fair listening ear, taking care during their illness and health, supporting them in their despair moments can bring powerful change in their developmental years. 

Home is the best available platform for us to share all these joys and sorrows of life and move hand in hand to face challenges together which will ultimately vanish with time. Hence, we all have to put in focused and shared efforts to build this homely atmosphere again in our lives and not merely focus on creating a big house full of luxuries. 

This can eventually turn the table around and enable us to provide a better life to our children and better place for our future generations. This home will have a reciprocal affect on both children and parents and even grand parents who also miss their children in their old age. 

So let's build homes, and not just houses of concrete which cannot provide us air to breathe in and  the freedom of living and sharing. 

Creating a better home can help create better people.