My Little Life!

Life no matter how little it is for each one of us but still holds its prominence, value and profound importance to manage it in some way or the other. Carrying on with new challenges by every passing minute and striving for a better tomorrow for ourselves and our next generations is the innate desire we all hold in common.

Suffering and putting efforts to come out of these sufferings is a consistent process. We try to figure out the reasons of our sufferings but sometimes we fail to understand them or we overcome them by our inner power of soul which keeps us telling that we can do it.

None of us is aware of our tomorrow, whether what type of new opportunities and challenges are coming our way now, nor we have the capacity to change our past. However, past holds its worthwhile experiences in itself to train us to be better off today, its was our greatest teacher provided we learn lessons all the time.

Today is the time and moment we have in our hands which is asking us to live it completely, wholeheartedly, happily and keep taking our chances in life.

Unfortunately, majority of individuals keep looking into their past and regret what they have done or lost, rest  keep planning and spending long hours for making their future better or even the best without realizing and understanding that whether they will be able to live tomorrow or not. So dear all! your answer is that live in today only, stop regretting your past, nor waste all your energies in future planning, do plan but not at the cost of losing your precious moments and opportunities in hand today.

Love yourself, love your feelings, your emotions, keep dreaming and keep moving on forward by taking a single step each day. Remember! SLOW AND STEADY ALWAYS WINS THE RACE.

Oh My God! These Copy Cats

Copying and imitating is one of the fundamental learning trait of human beings. A young child keeps on imitating all those around him/her to learn and this adds to his knowledge and experience throughout life.

Although, this process of imitation is never bad or negative however sometimes its bothering if it cross its limits and intrude other person's privacy.

In the contemporary world of business, marketing, competition and branding this impersonator process takes unnecessary advantage and leads to intrusion in other's business privacy and stealing copy rights, which is a crime in business world.

On the other hand, in universities, colleges and schools as well this natural and fundamental trait of learning is again misused by copying peer's assignments, stealing class fellows notes, cheating and finally leading to academic dishonesty (Plagiarism) is again unethical and considered a crime. Moreover, it doesn't lead such cheaters anywhere however it spoils their academic career and hinders their natural learning process.

There are some added dimensions to this process of imitation or impressionists, such habit of copying made them follow the footsteps without thinking themselves whether we are going in the right direction or not. These copy cats usually don't rely on their thinking power to differentiate between right and wrong and keep following blindly whom they consider as right according to their superficial criterion. Consequently, leading them towards failure or problems which have no solutions because each person has his/her own life situations and issues, therefore they need to be addressed differently.

Loving! A Gifted Prerogative

Love is a feeling existing deep down in our heart and soul. Each human being understand and feels its need throughout his or her life time irrespective of age, gender, ethnicity, color, caste and creed. Giving and getting love is our fundamental prerogative and I believe its a gift from nature and natural phenomenon and especially from God, who has created human being to share love among other fellow beings.

Facets of love endure among us all the time in the form of motherly love, parents love, grand parents love, siblings loving each other, spouse love for each other, love for opposite gender, love for friends and colleagues, you name it and its always there in some way or the other in all types of relationships among human beings.

Love keep us human and enable us to feel its beauty full of happiness inside our heart all the time. We own our love provided we are selfless in our intentions towards others. Love doesn't rely on conditions rather its an unconditional love. We must never take our love for granted because love comes towards us in complete surprise, either we are ready for it or just not ready but it comes to make us feel alive and living from inside our soul.

Different dimensions of love have their own values, ethics, morals, responsibilities, level of trust, mutual understanding, control, commitment and passion. Moreover, our disposition determines our destiny in love and destiny is the real power behind each loving relationship.

Love is worth a gifted prerogative to be considered by each one of us and therefore owes a respect from us. Respectful attitude in all types of loving relationships provides us to be parity in excellence. Love has the power to invigorate us from inside and take us towards our ambitions and goals with more commitment and zeal.

Giving and sharing our love with fellow human beings through understanding, compromising, providing, supporting, facilitating and caring are most vital ingredients which we must pour in our loving relations to turn them into fruitful ones.

LETS CELEBRATE OUR LOVE, AS A GIFTED PREROGATIVE FOR US!

Digital Age Kids! New Dimensions of Preparation

My world is now very small, it is on my small finger tips now with which I can manipulate and maneuver my own power of thinking, planning, creating, liking and disliking, understanding and learning in my own way.

Isn't it incredible! Yes indeed, it is. Especially children are enjoying this new innovative life experience and the phenomenon around them open for them all the time. Children are extremely delicate and precious beings especially in their childhood. They need to be dealt not only delicately but at the same time with intelligently to keep them on the right track. We as elders hold the responsibility of providing them satisfactory answers to their even foolish questions and queries, plus give them a direction to follow according to their cognition level and help them understand things in clear way. Complications make them frustrated and confused.

This digital age has twofold impact on our lives. On one side we are all experiencing wonders of technology, information, communication and much more than what we expect in split of seconds and with every passing moment. On the other hand this technological breakthrough has high social, emotional, physical and intellectual impact on our lives too. Children in their schools are taught with new methodologies using new multimedia devices however their teachers usually forget to guide them about the harmful effects and disadvantages of internet, social media and free communication channels wide open without any security check on them.

Therefore, a much greater responsibility lies on the shoulders of parents, teachers and community as a whole to provide a free accessibility to technology but with appropriate direction to them as well in their delicate age i.e. in elementary school age especially.

Ayesha's Innovations: Personal Anecdotes

Personal Anecdotes

Personal life of each one of us is always full of diversified experiences, incidents, mistakes but at the same time we all hold in common our secretive stories attached to us. We can call them as a kind of anecdotes which remain attached with us and sometimes we are unable to get away from them.

Such stories become part of our life routine therefore we start owning them and keep living with them irrespective of our happiness and sadness.

There are always natural life phenomenon in life which exist and we remain entangled in them due to inevitable reasons. Sometimes our inner fears, or some other societal factors keep stopping us to get out of these uneasy issues of life because with these personal anecdotes we start feeling comfortable and accept them as a bitter reality of our life.

Certainly, truth lies in accepting these stories as part of our life however opportunities always remain standing with open arms in front of us to hold hands with it and make ourselves free from these shackles of inner fears.

 After achieving maturity in life we all become prone to such dark sides. At this time we find rather more difficult to get out of the situation due to number of factors like family commitments, intellectual and professional commitments, putting our professional profiles at stake is not our cup of tea as well etc etc.

Where Are Grooming Mothers?

Mother has always been a source of love, affection, kindness, care, trust, and what not. Mother is the only individual who has borne all the pain to bring us into this world. She put her own life at stake for us to provide for us, to cuddle us, to keep us neat and tidy, to keep us away from all fears and problems therefore we all trust our mothers the most in this world and she is always a hope for us wherever and in whatever situation we are.

Fortunate are all those who have a mother always praying and loving us whether in return we are doing something for her or not, a totally selfless personality who always remains on the giving side.

Unfortunately, giving birth doesn't terminate the responsibility of grooming and training therefore somehow we are missing those mothers who use to groom and train their children to become the best human being among the lot.

She always use to guide her children about  eating habits, sitting manners,behaving with others, respecting elders and others, taking care of belongings, managing time, asking permission, remaining neat and tidy, controlling feeling and emotions, be sincere and honest in dealings, creating space for others in life etc are all those traits which are instilled by our mothers in childhood which become part of our personality throughout our life.